Live your to the Fullest : Enjoy not Annoy

Happiness is Living Your Life Today

Everyone ends up having difficult experiences. Happier people leave the past in the past while others live in that painful past.

In each moment you have to choose whether you want to live now and create the future of your dreams or to use your energy to keep your past alive and live in your story.

People who live in the story of their lives (often that story is about their drunken parents or the sexual abuse they endured, emotional neglect-the list goes on and on). Excess use of their daily energy supply Feeds past pain.

At the present time they do not have enough energy to make it. So very rarely do they decrease their immunity and their overall well-being declines. In time they wind up with a new chapter in their hunting story — about their ill health, their pain, and their limitations.

Living in your past hurts you. It takes you so far that you get away from the path of happiness, such an alternative lifestyle is also possible for you. The habit of living in past pain becomes harshly based on who you are or feels like.

It is never too late to wake up and see your present. In the present time, it is never too late to change that hopeless habit of living in your story. All you need is change. I mean really and truly in your heart you want to change.

How can you change into someone who lives and knows happiness? The first step is to recognize when you tell your story and stop yourself from repeating that habit. Now instead of making a new habit of living, you may want to change your friends. Ultimately, the way you can continue to be hurt by your past is to surround yourself with people who enable you to be trapped, people who are empathetic and sympathetic to your story.

Those people share their story with you for the same reasons — to feel justified in claiming their victim and righteous how their pain should be compensated. In other words, they feel entitled to things, to service. They feel that they can be saved and taken care of.

They fail to see that they are what they have been waiting for only through self-love, can anyone ever get out of their story and come into the real world of their happiness.